I place it right on the lip... where the two notches are in that lip is presumeably for a lift i'm guessing.. well thats where I put the stand..

I should of gotten a pic when it was on the stand i guess.

If you can get your car on ramps.... son you need a drop    just playing, but seriously 

And to Gr8, if that bumper is really sticking out 3-4inches and you want it to sit flush, best thing (and bitchy) is to actually cut the that excess material and epoxy + fiberglass it from the back (the two cut pieces).  Once you get it together, body shop or you can just do some bondo work outside of it to look good.
But again, it all depends on if you really care about looks, spending some time... or just let it be like it is.

Thanks. So it's the circle plate around the control arm right?

2 votes of confidence. That's good.

Thanks BC
Thanks Daes

you bet.