My high beams haven't worked for a while now and I just got a set of dealer service manuals off e-bay that let me trace the problem to the high beam relay, mounted beside the daytime running light ECU under the front bumper.  I checked mine out and sure enough it was rusted right off!  The problem is that nobody, not even the dealer, lists a replacement part for it in their lookups.  It's just not in the system.  Anyone else run into this, and what did you buy and where did you get it?