So i was at a party last night, and it just so happens that three girls that ive been fooling around with went to the same party. I messed around with one two months ago and then kinda kept my distance. But the other two were both within the past three weeks. yikes! so i leave the party after about an hour or so. After i left one of em gets really drunk and tells the other of her escapades... then all hell breaks loose.
Then one of them calls me up and askes to talk to me, and sounded really, really, angry. So i say okay. I figured that they all found out. So i walk outside of the dorm and im waiting for this girl to come out. She comes out all screaming and yelling, threatening to kick my ass ( shes a blackbelt

) I tried to be as calm as i could and not get caught up in the drama of the situation and we had a good talk and decided that would couldnt be friends anymore.
So what do you guys think, am i more at fault because i objectified multiple people instead of just one? I just think that my objectification of women is more apparent because it was with multiple people.
I told each of them before we did anything that, "nothing would come of us" and they agreed and did it anyways. But she said that, "girls get attached anyways and they dont understand what was going on." Is it my job to ensure their own well being or is it thier own? i didnt tell them about the other girls because i didnt think it would matter if they werent attached... Frustrating
They freely chose to do this just like me and we both have recieved the bitter fruit of the seeds we've sewn.
Sometimes i just wish i was horribly so i could just be left alone. not even have to worry about all this bulsh. I could read books all day, work on my car and go where i wanted for the rest of my life, no attachments.

Monogamous sex after marriage is the only way to go... no pregnancy scares, no STD scares, none of this bullsh.
The wanting to crawl in a hole and die award goes to.... me